Libra darkside astrology

Libra’s Underbelly
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  1. The dark side of Libra. | I Am Libra | Pinterest | Astrology, Libra and Zodiac
  2. The Libra Dark Side Astrology
  3. Libras are born from September 23 – October 22
  4. 2019 Horoscopes
  5. Libra Dark Side in Astrology

This was a great and successful political move and also true to his sign. Libra shies away from conflict everywhere— except within the family. Hero though he was, Gandhi ignored his wife and refused to send his sons to college, disowning his eldest who got married instead of being chaste, and I guarantee there was as much yelling in his home as there is in every Libra home.

But when the phone rings, Libra will answer it calmly and sweetly. Librans want peace and negative ones want it at any price, even if it means sneaking around, denying, controlling, and drama. Many Librans won't listen to reports of pain or unpleasantness and fool themselves that things they don't acknowledge didn't happen.

Because they repress their pain and everybody else's, they have meltdowns. Think of Judge Judy born October 21 and the pain she's seen and absorbed over 25 years as a judge in family court.

She balances that by verbally skewering and humiliating people. Another judge with an attitude is Simon Cowell Oct. It might take five years to get your own Libra male off your sofa. He will yell that all he wants is some peace. Librans speak kindly in public, but even the best ones do not really believe others have feelings or brains.

They see everyone as mindless and feel called to enlighten them Gandhi again, and John Lennon Oct. Librans are worrywarts and being or feeling alone is the most horrible thing they can imagine, one they compensate for with food especially fats, alcohol, and sweets and urge others to overindulge along with them.

Like the diet sodas they love, negative Librans are artificially sweet. Often, Libra guests arrive late if at all, and invitations from Libra specify the time you should leave so they can be their irritable selves again. A Libran I worked with began the day by removing her coat and airing her daily minute complaint.

She had no idea she had this habit. Another one I knew years later did the same; hard to believe, but true! I invited her to be part of a group, and they made fun of her "opening monologue" behind her back.

A negative Libra will move in with or marry someone to escape the financial or emotional pit they have dug for themselves. Content is for informational or entertainment purposes only and does not substitute for personal counsel or professional advice in business, financial, legal, or technical matters. To comment on this article, you must sign in or sign up and post using a HubPages Network account.

Libras are great as long as you keep it superficial. Loyalty well basically they have none. I used to believe a long term childhood freind was my true freind. Or the inability to care about circumstances in our roomie situation that were distressing to me as I thought of her like a sister.

Bye bitch see ya never. Libras are a lot about words. There are Librans whom I both like and despise for this quality, depending on what they've got to say.

If they're a brilliant Libran, I will definitely listen. If they are only pretending to be brilliant, there's no way they will capture my attention beyond the first sentence, as they are bland and phoney, and I simply will not respect them. He had made so many promises to me about the future we had together.

Throughout the years we dated other people but always kept in contact with each other. Eventually I got tired of playing cat and mouse with him and his uncertainty that I tried to call it quits.

Checking up on me and that left me feeling so confused. I gave my virginity to him thinking that it would change things make him open up to me more; Like me more, try to get to know me more,but I was wrong. I loved him at a distance because I was already attached and knew that being fully invested would break me even more.

After everything happened I moved on to another relationship and was starting to become happy again. But my current partner said the same thing as the last guy that I was bipolar, vindictive, and crazy.

It triggered me into believing that the Libra still loved me. How can two people who are different yet the same say the same thing about me?

Fast forward my boyfriend Aries with Libra moon broke up with me today. I realized that I was obsessed with being in love and finding someone who loves me and takes interest in me, and goes the extra mile for me. Most times anything short of that makes me feel unwanted. Its that I still struggle loving myself and getttin my wants and needs.

I have to invest more time into my life so I can be happy and feel confident and accomplished being in a relationship should amplify my happiness. Aquarius With Gemini moon. I want to add something. If look from the good side we're doing you a favor before you meet our Lucifer side Here as a person who is many time being soft spoken and caring Pisces.

I honestly say right here and right now that i cant stand people under the sign of Libra at least the ones i met because they are fake, manipulative, major gossip. For me i prefer friends who speak brutal true than sweet but fake words. They are freaking insecure. Sorry, if i have to choose to trust someone, i will choose people born under the signs of Leo,Sagittarius,Aries, Aquarius, Taurus,Scorpio and Cancer.

They are tooo real people to be fake. Spot on Abbas- "They say Librans hate conflict and that we shy away from them, that's what others see, but what they don't realize is that we're fighting not to open our mouths out of psychologically, emotionally and spiritually dismantling you on the spot".

The dark side of Libra. | I Am Libra | Pinterest | Astrology, Libra and Zodiac

I found the article to be amusing, thought-provoking and mostly true of most people, no matter what their sign. People can be quixotic and dynamic.

Most people are made of many layers, and can exhibit any set of traits associated with a various signs at any given time. If one looks at the long picture of a persons actions or decisions, they may fall more into one sign than others. I am a Libra, and I am artistic, love to play "wordsmith games", unfortunately my quirky sense of humor precludes anyone appreciating my "wit" most of the time.

I was married to a Virgo, and we got along well. I was married to a Leo before with Virgo tendencies and was totally miserable. I was a happy child and hate confrontation and lose all my lovely articulation abilities in the face of hate and nastiness. I avoid it like the plague.

My dark side is usually regret which I've been told is the cancer of life. I am spiritual and often pray for guidance, when I start to second guess decisions or blame myself endlessly for my mistakes.

I tend to feel deeply and take on too much responsibility. That would be my control issue. Trying to keep everything balanced and perfect and then blaming myself if everyone isn't happy. I will deny there is a problem all the while working frantically to justify or make it work, whatever it is.

But my "dark side" is also my "sunny side". I like to surround myself with positive happy people. People who take action and are decision makers and problem solvers like I do. So while avoiding ugliness and confrontations, I work hard to make those things never happen.

But when they do, I have this urge to feel responsible and take on the guilt and blame. People try to tap into that vulnerability and "twist the knife" unless I hide it from them. So while the posted article was interesting, it basically told one aspect of a particularly warped type of Libra.

I think it's true that Libras like things balanced and harmonious. They will go to great lengths to achieve it, but those lengths depend on that particular Libra. I think Libra's are not all heartless, but they tend to be very practical and don't marinate in their emotions a lot.

But that is a learned thing. Feelings can hurt you. So one must learn to defend themselves from harmful emotions. While I am now guilty of generalizing also, I have to say that I know that depending on the time one is born under the Libra sign, as well as at which day in October can all play a part in a Libra being the exception to the rule as far as whether they exhibit classic Libra traits.

Those born on cusps etc, may be very different than the normal Libra. Generally, I think Libras are more fair, and if they are ever dishonest, they at least have the decency to feel guilty about it ;. Libra's are hands down We are the balance of all of the signs Libra's born with out an earth sign to ground them We can seem very listless We crave beauty and an ethereal, gossamer rythm to the world around us In fact we typically see the best in all of those around us and work to pull that out of everything We also already have a decision made in our minds even if we seem like we don't We are extremely patient Our empathic abilities allows us to see inside you and we can pull out the most sensitive things that no one knows and use them as weapons to destroy your very being if we are crossed.

We are the empaths of the Zodiac We can see all sides to all things You will never be able to lie to us and get away with it We are deeply complex creatures and live in multiple worlds simultaneously We are the angel and the demon in one and we are enthralled with both sides equally We will love to the ends of time and to our very detriment and will give chance after chance after chance to prove your self.

Don't take this as a sign of weakness or to underestimate us With that infinite patience also come a storm brewing inside that once boils over will look something like the Dark Phoenix rising to burn the earth to nothing.

We will have justice and we will exact the pain you have placed on us and we will make you feel everything you ever made us feel in one moment.

We hate stupidity and ignorance We expect people to act gracefully and with consideration of one another This is very interesting; my mother is Libra and her vacillation between kind and cruel has kept me confused and emotionally bleeding for my entire almost 58 years on this earth. Toxic Libra will always make you feel like you were the one in the wrong.

I, pity myself to the point where i start crying. Because I can't see positive future at some point. I, remember all the bad stuff anyone has ever done to me BUT i have a patience of a God. If someone pulls a trigger I'll definately explode and make their life miserable because they get what they deserved. I, am lazy, BUT not because I love doing nothing.

I make plans throughtout the day BUT due to my overveight condition, which caused not having any energy and whole body and soul atching feeling even when i walk made me lazy. I, can win a fight really easily because i can play with my words and their double meanings. I, might be a good actor to not-so-close people, or to be more accurate, the mirror - to be exact same reflection of themselfs.

I, hate when dumb people try to judge or bully me. Yes, at this point I'm the meanest person i know. I, do want to move out with my boyfriend because i have problem. BUT that problem is that othervise I won't be able to see him properly, everyday.

I'm here to work on my imperfections but what I see in comments is just hate?!?!?! Fang you at this point. They lie about everything about them self, live in a romantic dreamworld where everybody admires love and wants them Lol Libras are the biggest gaslighters imaginable.

This has happened to me more than twice in my life at very different times and situations in a relationship, almost boyfriend, friend, boss with men and women libras.

It's a bad place to be when someone makes you feel you don't know what you're talking about, are stupid, or just plain crazy. If you've got a libra like that - RUN! Like you might know, Libras absolutely hate confrontation. Commenting is something I don't do often, because it might throw me off the balance that I am so precious about haha, but once in blue moon I take risks and considering the topic I feel like it's worth a go.

To start with, yes when we are grumpy we are the worst thing that can happen to humanity. I fucking hate myself when I'm grumpy and it makes it even worse.

Secondly, most of the time we have no absolute clue how to deal with ourselves. We read articles books and stuff that interests us to gain a better understanding about ourselves and others, so we can become good at observing people and have a fair that's a questionable statement judgement in situations.

But the point is we are shit at emotions, because our minds are a major dumping ground, where is so much stuff that the stuff we say and the stuff we believe often go in different directions.

However, the stuff you put into the Libras mind it stays there. If Libra is raised by more stabile signs, especially if one of the parents are under the earth sign, they can help then learn to identify the emotions, so even when they don't actually feel the emotion they will understand it. We are intelligent, but we do need a lot of guidance.

What Libras actually need is just to find a stable ground they can hold onto when times are unsteady, what often becomes their SO or someone else who is very close. Personally, I've been single for my whole life except for a year when I was in a relationship with another Libra, what is the worst combination on the whole planet earth, especially if the both Libras haven't had a chance to learn and stabilise themselves.

When it comes to our fakeness, I put on a smiley face on every single freaking morning even if dying inside, because it's not fair to people who surround me.

The Sign of Balance = The Illusion of Balance

Because, my inability to cope with my emotions and disability to be alone should never weight others down. Like it is mentioned above we like to flake out on our family members and that is something I can't deny, we are just looking for guidance we can't find and actually we know all the stuff we want to know already, we just can't find it in all the shit that we bathe in in our minds.

We need to hear someone saying out loud that the stuff is going to be okay, otherwise if we don't hear it, we don't consider it real.

Often people see a completely different picture of us that it actually not how we feel inside. We often come of too dry and soulless, artificial, but for me it just happens because I am so numb from all the emotions and guilt about the most stupid little things.

I've spent years trying to figure myself out, because I don't want to be full of shit, I want to be good and sincere and honest. I am still trying to find that perfect middle. The stereotype that portrays us like a sweet candy floss and charming lucky charms is so misleading.

So I think it's a useful observation, but in no way it should put other Libras down. Like someone mentioned in a comments below, Libras have a gut feeling that is almost always accurate and they should definetely trust that. That gut feeling is what actual makes us feel human, not the thoughts or beliefs we have, because they can often lie and the heart we have, even if it's synthetic or artificial can't.

However, you shouldn't forget that Libras are assholes and don't buy their shit, unless you test them. Trust me, I am a Libra I know what kind of demon we can be. All that is written is so true.

By hurtful i mean really hurtful libras observe and are very diplomatic, they watch your everyday behavior ask you lots of questions if they are interested and learn about you enough just to be able to push the right buttons to hurt you. Pinning any unoleasantness you are experiencing from people on Libras, flies in the face of Spirituality, as we understand it.

The Universal Law Of One. Do you not see that you are putting energy into pulling people down, which will surely circle back, hurting you and those you love? Why not radiate Love instead, and shine your light bright enough to dissipate any shadow you happen upon? The world needs more light from you. Transmuting the energy behind the thoughts and words of your ranting into energies of Love and Light is as simple as asking the Universe to do it.

I am a Libra and I can tell u when u make a Libra mad they get quit and when that happens the best thing to do is leave cause they are about to snap. This article makes me regret being a Libra: I think it's smart to learn astrology to choose the best time to give birth to a child and choose their planetary influences to prevent many obstacles: I hide my negative emotions and just keep it.

I hate having fights in public. I dont like drama. Think i am not fake person. Just that we only show it in private place. We are not too bulgar to chaos in public. I think that is just right when etiquette is concern.

And nope im a Loyal libra. My older bro is a libra, a paedophile. He used to bully me when I was a child in every nasty way you can think of. He used to sexually abuse me, in a very sadistic way, sneaking into my bed when I was sleeping. I remember my mum saying to me that he used to steal money from my dad, reason why he had to lock the drawer where he could keep his cash safe.

His best friends were always the most quiet guys he could find to hang around with. He had tons of pornographic magazines when a teenager. He's won competitions on creating video games at an early age.

No one believes he's got so many dark secrets in his life but only the very close ones to him, like his ex-wife who I learned, only once they got divorced, that he was very aggressive to her indoors. What makes worse about him is that he is double faced and people can only see his bright side, that he is helpful to people, he helps my sister financially, he cares about my parents and is looking after them.

Now he lives in Japan and if I ask him to get me anything from there he would send me by post, or any info about computers, or hints on how to solve computer problems etc.

He's friendly in that way which confuses me now a lot And I took my chances and went to Japan, and for my surprise he had prepared a space for me to sleep with improvised curtains, giving me total privacy. He did work hard to improvise that space for me. He also took me around by car to show wonderful places etc.

Today he's converted into spiritualist religion, and I hope he's changed now although a few years back he let slip something about one of his sons who he said "he is very serious" and that "he is different from the younger one".

At my request of clarification he said "oh well he doesn't like certain things, like when I play a bit with him, he gets furious". So I understood that he meant "when I try some sexual assault on him So maybe he's still a paedophile and that can't be changed.

The Libra Dark Side Astrology

He's sick but I don't know what to do now because I've reached an adult age and have lived with the nightmare of those horrible experiences in my life.

I am leaving him in God's hands because I know one day he will pay for all these sick acts he's committed. He's been nicer to me than when I was younger, but I can't erase my past memories and my feelings are of a great pain still because I can't forgive him at all even tho he's nice and the most helpful person in my family at the moment And sometimes I feel terrible about myself because I constantly fight my own feeling of wanting him to rotten in hell, because I feel I shouldn't as he's my brother.

If there's karma involved in my destiny I only wished I was child raped by a stranger not by my own brother.

Searching on the net about paedophiles I found out that most of them were committed by librans. I searched under "Star signs related to types of crimes" and got the shocking result: So that could be their another dark, sick and spiteful dark sides to add into the ones mentioned in this article. I am a few years late in reading your amazing and very poignant article regarding The Dark Side of Saccharine Libra, but I am soo glad I found it.

When I meet new people, I always try and find a way of getting through the backdoor to their psyche - Astrology being my usual tool. Sometimes I forget to get that information One day, a Libran aquaintance the now ex fiance of my partner's friend tried to contact my partner one Christmas with a flurry of dramatic txts and voicemail as her fiance had dumped her.

My partner and her don't have a friendship We were staying in a very beautiful hotel and this was Christmas Eve I immediately had her pegged as a boyfriend snatcher, took charge and used my partner's phone to phone her back not knowing her star sign. The Libra was seething underneath her shock that I phoned her, that she hadn't got my partner!

In fact she spent a good time saying she expected to speak to my partner, but in a very roundabout way! I told her he didn't think it wise to take "sides" and wanted to stay out of it.

I spent 2 hours on that phone listening to her sob story and when I put the phone down, she remained in my head, like a mosquito biting my brain, irritating, annoying and I tried several times to con myself that perhaps my gut instinct was off, I'd since found out she was a Libra, I'd never met one until then that's a whole 36 years without knowing a Libra, I wasn't missing anything.

I stupidly had them pegged as pacifists, harmless I let her into my world denying my gut instinct and being the stupidly open person I can be, shared a few secrets - thankfully nothing shameful, just emotional things from my past.

Looking back, she loved it when I was down, positively revelled in it!! She was always there, talking about it When I started to find my feet and grow back into my own skin and started embracing life I started sewing classes and then attending Couture workshops she didn't want to know. If i started talking excitedly about what i was learning and even invited her to class, she was cold, uncaring and uninterested this is the woman who maxes out credit cards at cheap clothing shops I then inherited a lot of money and I already own my home and rent it out which I know she hated as she wasn't interested in seeing the renovation photos and I told her my news.

I was overwhelmed and tearful as it was my dad who gave me it in advance, and it was the first time he told me he loved me - I am telling her the story, she wasn't interested and tried to turn it all back to her new Prey, a new man.

I knew then she truly was that ugly person from Christmas. The alarm bells were ringing, I was no longer denying the gut and i made sure I got her whole astrology chart on the pretense of performing a compatibility report for her new Prey.

What I saw was shocking and a wake up call. She has a lot of planets in Leo. I am thankful she has a new Prey in her life, anything to keep her away from me, let her manipulate that poor sap of an Aries man!

If it all goes wrong I won't be there for her, I've locked the Neptunian door I'll counter her with a weapon she despises A lifelong libra friend I'm strongly considering giving up. I love her like a sister. I won't let anyone treat her badly. But that's a 1 way thing.

Other day called her home only to have her drunk freind try to question me on religion? I was so offended. Damn straight go right out of my life. I see a lot of my dark traits right there. Its a painful truth and for those of you who got offended by this article. Let's be honest ladies and gentlemen, you weren't here to read about reasons why people should love us librans..

I will never justify our dark side. In fact the reason why i am here is because i just googled the dark side of Libras today morning. As a typical Libran male, I am well aware of my faults.

I remember exactly where I have wronged others and I also remember when and how many times I have compensated for those acts of selfishness or rudeness. To be honest, I am more aware of my faults than of my strengths. I have a horrible relationship with my parents and my brother.

I am afraid of settling down with someone. What happens when all the fun and excitement of being in a relationship is over??? Am I going to take out all my frustrations on my wife and kids even????

I am worried that the very same relationship that i have with my parents is what I will have with my wife and kids. I have hit that point in life where the realization of who I truly am is so upsetting that I despise myself. I have begun meeting new people like this "dont be fooled, I am not what it seems".

We libras are very difficult people for families to get along with. Our home is where we are the most stubborn, the most controlling, unyielding, vengeful selves. The only reason I can think of is that, it is because we hide ourself so well in public that we carry all the annoyances and irritation back home, to a place we do not need to hide and while at home, the slightest irritation can wreck havoc.

Things that does not warrant attention would end up being scrutinized and judged and harshest of words will be exchanged I have a stellium in libra sun moon mercury venus and they are all in the 12th house.

I Definetly repress anger and am secretive. I am no drama queen though. I hate drama, and i am not sociable either. I know someone with libra sun and moon who has all of the above mentioned as well. Sun and moon are in 8th house but he and i are good people. Second thought about this subject And then there are the decans of each zodiac sign, in which will defer from each other but still be somewhat the same of each other.

Depends on the day of the month you were born. I know 5 Geminis, 3 aquarius' real well. All are alike but different also. I looked each up, the decans explained it well. I know two Libras. Both can be very friendly, sweet, helpful The one I know best is so selfish, vindictive that she doesn't care who's life she ruins while in the process of getting what she wants.

Libras are born from September 23 – October 22

Wants two men at one time, expecting both to remain while she decides, but they better not find another woman while the libra is deciding. Their kids are not allowed to love anyone but her, the mother.

If they do they will learn to regret it. She buys and bribes people with any means. A lawyer once made a circle of names with a dot in the center.

Asked us who we thought the dot was, we shrugged, he then told us it was the very libra I am talking about. He said she has to always be the center of attention, will continue to create major drama until she gets what she wants.

Finally, to our regret, years later we gave up and let the kids go since she was ruining our and their lives in the process of her severe selfishness. She finally left us alone and we did not see the kids until they became adults, many years later.

Kids now tell us that Mom uses people for money, and gets in an uproar out of the blue. She also cries at the drop of a hat. When in discussion about this libra others who think they know her well will defend her and say she is gracious and unselfish.

They can't believe us about her. She is a great charmer, but to only win someone over enough to get info from them, info that she can use against others eventually. Like she has some sort of ledger in her head. The other libra I know, is charming also. But charming when she wants info from us. Nosy and users of others' lives.

These libras gossip in such a way that so many don't consider them as gossipers. My experience with libras is dark. Just my experiences of libras I know. As a matter of fact, I won't let myself around these libras because they do charm well and I now see charmers as nothing but a sticky web, don't get too close.

I am a libra and this doesn't describe me. I pride myself on being truthful beyond anything. That is the only way you can truly be loyal. I DO think everyone else has a brain and feelings. I am almost offended by this "even the best libras do not think you have feelings or a brain". I would also like to remind everyone that this isn't a "meltdown" I am having a reasonable opinion.

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If I screw up I own up. I apologize and we move on. You don't know that and everyone is individual. Yes I do throw tantrums and become manipulative but only when I am wronged and taken advantage of for a long time. My behavior is actually a slight reflection of yours. Off course, I am not going to vent on strangers when I am wronged by a close one as it will not be justified.

Nor I will treat my closed ones badly if I had a bad day. Yes I can be dark by being extremely lazy and indecisive but everyone has got a dark side. I love, appreciate, care and support all those close ones who accept and love me for who I am. I also appreciate the creativity of this author by portraying Libra's negative image since I was really bored of those charming and peaceful stories about Libras As someone that has done a lot of astrology reading I can admit I know some of these traits can be very true of a libra.

I have to say you have gone out of your way to taint this sign more so than they deserve and more so than your other dark side write ups. I must agree with fellow commentors that your distaste for this sign is merely a reflection of your own negativity and distorted observations.

You look and sound evil and very quite bitter. If your not a "capricunt" you have the face and attitude for one.

And I know there's a dark side but I'm not a dark person. However I met a libra and she's like me but diffrent. The shadows are her home!

This describes her to a T. I couldn't wrap my head around it because I'm not like that. This is very true about Libras. Don't let their "niceness" fool you. I have a Libra "friend" that I grew up with and I thought she was the nicest person but now I realize how untrue that is. She is conniving, manipulative and a backstabber. She uses people and shes a know it all.

Libra Dark Side in Astrology

I used to call her a best friend but she is far from it. Shes ugly on the inside and on the outside and she's vain for no reason.

I am supposed to get along with this sign but it is the one I like the least. I get along with Virgos and Scorpios just fine.

I am pretty sure there are killers of all signs I can agree with some of the second parts of statements: Of course I'm born in October haha I happen to be controlling indeed toward those who get closer to me; in the work-social arena And sometimes I just make fun of people- for instance if they make racist comments and I'm just having a beer on Sunday night, instead of punching them in the face I get this attitude of smiling from ear to ear, looking them straight in the eye and and making them feel like shit.

But then again, it's for a good cause? I'm a Libra with lots of planets in Scorpio. This article was accurate about "some" of my dark traits. This just says a lot.

Every astrology reading sugarcoats signs like Libra so it must be that shocking for you. There are bad people, no matter which sign they are, and your sign is not inmune to that evilness. Yeah I do see these traits in myself I just find it happens when I'm being too nice or something and I always seem to attract the wrong people Im working on how to tell which person I should be friends with and people just taking advantage of me As you know im a libra and have a pretty hard time saying no I think all libras have a dark side to balance out being kind, caring, and considerate One day includes both sun and moon rising and setting, to be complete.

This was an interesting read. I'm a Libra Sun with a Libra Ascendant. I'm going to be very honest, I was pretty ruthless with my ex wife, especially in the latter part of our marriage. I was married to a Virgo woman, one who heavily did the virgo thing which is pessimistically driven to chastise and be judgmental to the end.

I know that sounds brash, and probably just as bad as how Librans have been painted on here, but there is a very specific driving force as to why I acted the way that I did, and it's because of how how she treated my children.

I've been blessed with a moon in Leo, for all of those with Leo in their charts, you know that means firey devotion on a different scale. For me, it was to my defend my kids and anytime she went past the line of reason in punishing them, I was right there to invoke the one thing Librans are good at, utilizing and that is our rather sharp tongue.

They say Librans hate conflict and that we shy away from them, that's what others see, but what they don't realize is that we're fighting not to open our mouths out of psychologically, emotionally and spiritually dismantling you on the spot.

There is a reason why they say Librans make good judges, its because we are able to take every situation or event and tear it down to it's nuts and bolts to see what's really within. We don't use emotions to figure things out, we don't use tactile sensory to figure things out, it's about all that is mental and the air signs are especially built for this.

The Native American totem of the Libran time frame is the Raven. They said that the raven people were feared in the tribes because they always new what was going on without hearing a word, they always knew. We work from the shadows, you'd figure that would be a Scorpio thing being ruled by Pluto, but despite being ruled by Venus, our hermit like needs tend to make us more powerful in our endeavors when we are in solitude to let our mental powers loose.

By the way, those of you who had Libran parents that treated you like garbage, what's your sign? My children I mentioned earlier just so happen to be a gemini girl and a sagittarian boy.

They will never make her needs for materialistic stability happy, nor her emotional driven self to be happy. Like a few here said earlier, there's more to the picture about the signs, you have to look at the sum total of your chart.

One Libran is not going to be the same as the other. One of my best friends is a Libra with a moon in Pisces. So don't take the general layout of the Libra to heart, it's only one sliver of what variations there can be about the Libra. I'm super proud to be one. I'm a Libran and I all I care about is love. I love so deeply and I treat my man like he's a god hoping to get that amount of attention in return but it never happens.

I've been in two long relationships with Aquarius and Gemini , they are supposed to be the best compatible signs with libra but not in my case , they care too much about their parents and careers more than the woman they love. I don't care about anything when I'm happily in love. I ignore my family my friends and my work. I do whatever makes my lover happy just to keep the harmony and passion between us.

But now I discovered that I gave everything to the wrong people. My family and friends are being very supportive while my lover soon to be my ex is just busy with his new job.

And I don't want to become a mother after all I read here , It's a big responsibility that I can't handle I'm very fragile and need someone to constantly take care of me. I'm 28 years old , born on September 27 and I wish I can hear stories of girls who share the same birthday with me as I need some answers. I want to know what's going wrong because I'm doing all the right things but all I'm getting is disappointment.

Freaking true to the core. Did not tap out because I do not believe in giving up easily in love. Or so I thought. Boy was I so wrong and regretted holding on for so long. Thank God doctors brought me back alive.

Everyday, physical pain reminds me of how manipulative, hypocritical, cynical and deceptive she can be. And to think I still stood by her EVEN when I was admitted and discharged till her demented form comes devouring me inside out again!!!

I was a fool sheltering her from all her accusers but they were actually right all along. I was a big fool. Curse you Libra for messing men's life everywhere you go.

You should have gone to the shrink when he asked you to! I'm a libra myself. But damn I've definitely never seen an article talking so badly about us Librans! People should understand that not every Libran is the same. They may share common general characteristics but that's it. All that's left like the bad traits mentioned above which seemed to me like traits of a dangerous personality disorder is formed depending on countless variables the way one was raised, experiences etc..

In fact the way one reacts to whatever angers them is much more beyond a zodiac sign. Reactions are learned through experience and habit, you are not born with a certain way of reacting due to a zodiac sign. This article is way too shallow for the most part.

And I do know many people who fit this above profile but are not Librans and also not related to Libra in general. It is overly exaggerated.

So now every Libran is a bad parent? Mother, father, uncle whatever.. There are many bad parents and abusers, even family murderers with different zodiac signs. And what's described in the article is more like a personality disorder, rather than a dark side.

Seems to be written by someone who had a bad experience with a Libran and conluded that all Librans are like that one scumbag they once knew..

Shewolf, it is painful for all when people don't understand us. Often, the question "Why? People themselves don't know what drives them. But when others give you guff, you can be sure the problem is about them, not you. It is build up frustration, anger and pain, because you once were nice, and understood and accepted ppl by the way they are, but we seem to have to mold, like we aren't good enough Well, I that feel that my negative side is taking over at the moment, don't really enjoy it, I'm not in peace, I cry when I'm alone, think that I just wanna die, it's like I'm out of place All I wanted was ppl to accept me the way I accept ppl by the way they are, and for example stop wondering if what I say to a 3rd person upsets my partner, etc To others, the tendency smacks of narcissism , but Libras think they're just making sure they look presentable.

Don't be fooled by the Libran males' charm either! He's every bit as vain as his female counterpart. All aspects of grooming enhance this handsome chap, and it's not beyond him to steal your creams and bubble bath, so beware! Part of the Libra dark side astrology is the fact that these Venusian babies, without some direction, will burn through money like it grows on trees.

Whether it's spending money like there's no tomorrow or forgoing a diet and yes, Librans are always on a diet and having that second glass of wine, Librans are known for their tendency to overindulge.

And it's not just wine and money; many a Libra has been spotted staring starring longingly at cup cakes and decadent pasties through bakery windows! Libra's overindulgence lends itself to browsing and buying at the shops.

This is where we see another of Libra's darker qualities - indecision. At its best, it means Libra is incredibly diplomatic, but at its worst? Well, let's just say friends, spouses and siblings will put in a lot of foot traffic at the malls!

It's the rare Libra indeed who says no to a party. New Year's Even bashes, birthday parties or even finding that perfect parking spot is enough to send Libra into celebration mode.

By the way, male Libra likes to party just as much as lady Libra, but take note of all those kisses; this gent loves to flirt and have a good time. All that partying does lead to a tendency to cheat. Librans don't mean to cheat, it's just that they're so darned cute and attractive that everyone just seems to like them remember that vanity?

Luckily, this usually stops once they're in a committed relationship, but with Libra, you just never know! Sharing tidbits of information is a virtual pastime and hobby for Libra, so if you like to play your cards close to your vest, consider another astrological sign for the role of "best friend".

Now take a moment to learn about how to make a Libra fall in love.